Archive for October, 2007

My Life Unscripted

Oct 24th 2007
Posted by Susan

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My Life Unscripted: Who’s Writing Your Life?
By
Tricia Goyer / Thomas Nelson

Tricia Goyer is an incredible writer, and a great friend, and I thought, hey, I’d love to do a blog for her and her superb new book. However, I also have her TARGET MARKET living with me, READING her book, so my little brain (which has a lot of other projects going) thought…hey! my teenager is prolific (and is QUOTED in the book, I might add)…she probably has a few words about Tricia’s book…

And she did.

So…From the desk of my teenager…

Why I love My Life, Unscripted

I remember when I met Tricia Goyer, She was totally cool and nice (and still is). I remember talking to her and thinking, wow! This lady is pretty cool. She was super nice to me as she welcomed me into her home. It was a while after that when she emailed me and asked me to answer some questions for her book My Life, Unscripted.

I got Tricia’s book and was so excited to read it. The first thing I noticed about it was that it was actually Her story. She brings in good points in her book as she talks about important things in the average teenage girls life. I love how she connects the Bible with every day life, and helps us (the teenagers) understand that what we are going through is normal and that there is a way to get through it.

The book brings up important subjects like peer pressure, abortion, dating, insecurity, popularity, and Christianity. I really like how Tricia got opinions from other girls to talk about subjects, it’s important to know that she knows what she is talking about. I think this book is a great spiritual guidance for teenage girls.

Tricia did a great job writing this book, and I think that anyone in search of a seriously awesome book, they should read My Life, Unscripted by Tricia Goyer.

MWE’s

Oct 17th 2007
Posted by Susan

My son plays Half-Back and full-ball for his 6-7, 7-8th grade football team. He lives for football. Simply loves it. His favorite dinner time activity is showing his family all his fresh bruises. (and he does it with a big grin).

I love to watch my thirteen year old play. I’ve gone to every game for the past three years (except when I’m out of town), and whether it’s raining, or snowing or warm or windy, I’m there, screaming. Of course I am, I’m his mom.

We have what I call MWE’s in our house – Mandatory Warren Events, where the entire family must participate. Today’s football game was one of these. I dragged the family out, specifically to cheer for Peter. (It’s events like these that I remind them that this is not a democracy, and I am not an elected official. It’s a dictatorship, and any rebellion will be put down, through government control of communication and transportation systems.).

We sat there for 4 hours, while it rained, while we got soggy to the bone, cheering for Peter. Why? Because I want Peter to know that his dreams are important. That Mom cares.

Which is why I also came home and drew him a hot bath in the whirlpool tub. I thought, hey, I’m cold. I’ll bet he is too. I’ll bet he would like a bath.

He got home. Looked at the tub. Then got into the shower. “I don’t like baths mom. They’re for girls.”

Oh. I didn’t know that.

“But thanks anyway,” he added.

Okay, so sometimes I get it right. And sometimes I don’t.

I made cookies. Gave each kid about 10.

“You’re the greatest mom,” Peter said as he grabbed his handful.

Let’s see. I attend games in the snow, in the rain, in the mud, I drag the screaming masses with me, and I run a bath. But it’s cookies that win the affection of the people.

I should have guessed.

I’m taking ten for myself and going to watch Grey’s. In the tub.

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Ask a Writer Anything: What Is A Happy Ending?

Oct 12th 2007
Posted by Susan

Melissa asked: Why does every book have to have a happy ending? Don’t get me wrong, I like the happy ending, but at the same time there are a few books that I have read that totally threw me by not having the expected happy ending, the guy didn’t get the girl, and they didn’t live happily ever after with 2.5 kids and a dog. Anyway, funny question, I know, but sometimes I like it when the ending isn’t what I’m expecting.

Oh, that’s a good question!

Actually, I did write a story that didn’t have a typical happy ending once – Marina, where my heroine and my hero do NOT live happily ever after. (at least in that book!). Why do I mostly write happy endings? 1. Because I like them. 2. Because I think my readers, who have spent so much time with these characters would like them to be happy. 3. Because after all that suffering, I think my characters deserve it. And since I’m the creator, I want to make them happy.

However – if I am crafting a story where I don’t think there should be a typical happy ending, then I am not going to write one. I think the story has to be told the way it is demanded to be told. I hated, for example, Sommersby. Hated. Why? Because, aside from the fact that I was a sopping mess by the end of the movie, it wasn’t a happy ending. However, that was how the story HAD to be told. Any other way, and it wouldn’t have been realistic. But then again…was it truly an UN-Happy ending? Because the heroine got to keep her status as a landowner, had experienced true love, and was able to honor the promise her husband/imposter had made in giving the land away to the freed slaves. Perhaps, it was happy…or let’s call it bittersweet.

How about Cold Mountain? That might have been written differently, but then again, it wasn’t really an UN-happy ending either, was it? The woman lost her man, but she’d only had him in her imagination, and only in reality for one night. They might NOT have lived Happily Ever After, but she had her child, and the illusion that they would have been happy, and person, in that way, they did have their traditional ending.

I think it’s important to take a look at WHAT HEA means for the character. And for the story. And if it means a traditional ride off into the sunset, then great. But perhaps, like you suggest, we can think outside the book, get to the heart of the matter, and craft an ending that will keep people (like me), rooted to their seats, sobbing. And, thinking.

(Susan May Warren spent the summer collecting “Ask and Author Anything!” questions, about life, writing and anything (within reason) her readers asked. Stop back every week this winter to read the answers to those questions!)

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Not Hannigan, but Lilly

Oct 10th 2007
Posted by Susan

As a mom, I just hate it when my kids’ dreams don’t come true. Not, of course, that I want ALL their dreams to come true (ie, I have no desire see my son’s dream of become a NASCAR driver come true. Thanks, but can anyone say FIERY DEATH?) I do, however, buy into the hope that they’ll be happy, have satisfying careers, fall in love, have amazing children of their own.

And I’m willing for them to work at it, too. Like this summer, when my daughter took a job washing dishes so she could earn enough money to take driver’s ed.

But if I could, I would orchestrate it the things they work hard for, they’d succeed at. And in my daughter’s life, that’s theater.

Every year, our amazing theater does a musical for the fall season. Every year it gets a little more technical, and this year, they’re doing Annie. It’s an all kids production, so the adult roles are played by kids. Ie, my son David (age 16) is Daddy Warbucks. (he can’t WAIT to shave his head bald. I told him that he has to abstain until AFTER we get our Christmas pictures taken). My daughter desperately wanted the part of Ms. Hannigan. She has a Hannigan personality and I thought she’d be perfect. She even got to play the part at a fundraising event this summer. I thought she nailed it.

However, when the parts went up, another talented young lady had landed Hannigan. Sarah got Lilly. Another great part (Rooster’s girlfriend), she gets to be a little ditzy tramp. I think she’ll do a bang-up job.

Sarah was bitterly disappointed. She had already embraced the Hannigan role in her mind. I saw the pain on her face and just wanted to take it on myself. I wished she could see the potential I saw in the role she’d been given – and the blessing of even getting a role (over 60 kids auditioned). But she doesn’t have my view of her, her beauty, her talent, her charisma. She doesn’t see what I see.

I think about that sometimes, with God. That although we desperately want something else, he knows the richness of the opportunity He’s handed us. And knows that while others might be a great fit for the role we think we should have, in fact, we have the potential of doing a spectacular job with what we’ve been handed, if we’ll just stop being disappointed, and start training for the right role.

can play every role I want to. But I can stop wishing for other roles and dive into the one I’ve been given, today.

Maybe someday she’ll play Hannigan. But she’ll have this season to learn Lilly, and make it shine.

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Ask a Writer Anything: What’s Your Secret

Oct 8th 2007
Posted by Susan

Hannah asked: I always wondered how a author can write so many books and still have such good endings and plots etc. So what’s your secret to writing? Lol!

Oh, thank you for those kind words! I love to write, and I’m always on the hunt for a great story! I’m actually very dangerous to have around – just last week I was sitting in a restaurant and accidentally overheard a person talk on their cell phone (have you ever noticed how loud people are on their cell phones?). He poised a question to his caller, and it got my little brain thinking of all sorts of crazy answers, so much that I had to sit down and write an opening scene for a yet unpublished book. I can’t help it – I’m always asking what if, and what does that person do, and pretty soon, I have a story in my mind. As for the endings, it really depends on the character, and his/her needs/dreams/fears. I always let the character tell me what the ending is going to be, before I start the story. Yes, I know that sounds a little strange, but if I discover who my character is and why he/she does what they do, usually I can tell what sort of ending will be perfect for them. Hence, why each story is different! (Although, yes, I have one theme – Happily Ever After!)

I have a lot of secrets to how I plot my characters and stories – discover them at www.mybooktherapy.com, and get your daily dose of writing craft!

(Susan May Warren spent the summer collecting “Ask and Author Anything!” questions, about life, writing and anything (within reason) her readers asked. Stop back every week this winter to read the answers to those questions!)

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Ask a Writer Anything: Getting Noticed

Oct 5th 2007
Posted by Susan

Tawni asked: How do you go about getting your story noticed by a publisher? My daughter is 15 and loves to write.

Getting noticed in today’s market – whether you’re published, or not, it always a challenge. There is always another great book out there, always a story that is similar to your own. What do you do?

1. Write the story that is on your heart. God has given you a passion for something, and no one can write it with your angle, your insight, your burden. Yes, it might be a rehash of a million other stories, but written in your fresh voice and perspective, it can still be a story that resonates. (Look at all the remakes of old movies, or variations on, say Bible themes, or Shakespearian plays!)

2. Work, work, work on craft so that you can write the best possible story. Make your verbs sing, your nouns sharp, your dialogue crisp, your theme powerful. Make your characters real, and your tension sizzle. Craft always gets noticed.

3. Be true to the story. Every book has a message, yes, but if your message overpowers your story, then you’re just preaching. Tell the story, as creatively as possible, and the message will shine through.

4. Stay current with books in the genre you’re writing so you know your competition. Your editor will know what else is out there – you should too.

5. Take criticism with grace, apply it, and DON’T GIVE UP!

Sounds simple, I know, but those basics are what have driven writers across the centuries to write the classics, the best-sellers and the stories we love today.

(Susan May Warren spent the summer collecting “Ask and Author Anything!” questions, about life, writing and anything (within reason) her readers asked. Stop back every week this winter to read the answers to those questions!)

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Don’t Fuss Over ME!

Oct 3rd 2007
Posted by Susan

My husband hates his birthday. Okay, hates is a strong word, but let’s just say that he’s not into presents and making a big fuss. In fact, that’s his entire personality. We once had a big discussion about what “LATE” means. I think it means being about 15 minutes behind schedule. He thinks it’s coming in right when the event is supposed to start. I asked him why he hates being late – and he says that it calls attention to his arrival, that people FUSS over him. He’d rather be there and sort of soak into the walls, emerging when he felt comfortable. (I, however, am into the fuss, not like that’s a giant surprise…) (Okay, so I DO agree that it’s rather inconsiderate to be late, so I put my fullest efforts into being on time – even setting my clocks ahead. Although one would argue that it doesn’t help the late problem because it isn’t the inability to read clocks…)

The thing is, I LIKE a Fuss. I like it when I can be fussed over, and when I can fuss over others. It’s fun for me to lavish on people attention. It’s fun to fuss over the people I love.

So it was hubby’s 40th birthday last week. I’m thinking Big Deal. He’s thinking, please go away. Not that he was apprehensive about the big 4-0, but again, anything to avoid the FUSS. And turning 40 is one of those inherent “let’s fuss” events.

So, me, the FUSSER, put on my thinking cap and pondered what I could give him for his birthday that would be for HIM. And it hit me.

No fuss.

I could completely not dramatize his birthday. I could keep a small affair. I could surrender my need to FUSS, and make it totally about him.

*sigh*

So, instead of the fuss, I took him to the movie theater, let him pick the movie. I took him to the mall, gave him money, let him pick his present. I handed him a list of local restaurants, let him pick the restaurant. We went to an Indian place that had amazing food. I did not make a fuss. I gave him a completely boring, non-fuss day.

He loved it. Said it was his best birthday ever.

And I guess, in the end, that’s what counts.

Happy Birthday, Honey!

(Susan May Warren spent the summer collecting “Ask and Author Anything!” questions, about life, writing and anything (within reason) her readers asked. Stop back every week this winter to read the answers to those questions!)

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Forever Christmas by Christine Lynxwiler

Oct 2nd 2007
Posted by Susan

I love it when I see my friends’ books hit the shelves – especially when I’ve brainstormed with them, and prayed with them in the writing process. I think this is some of Chris’s best work – and just in time for Christmas! I know you’ll love it!

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After two broken engagements, so-called runaway bride Kristianna Harrington is content to run her shop, Forever Christmas, in her little hometown of Jingle Bells, Arkansas, and forget about romance. She reluctantly agrees to be the maid of honor at her best friend’s wedding, but making it down the aisle becomes the least of her worries when a handsome newcomer threatens her precious town. Kristianna vows to stop the striking lawyer hired to change the town name and turns to her childhood friends for help. But Ami is busy with wedding plans, and Garrett seems more interested in bowling than politics. Will Kristianna get the help she needs before both her town and her Christmas spirit are extinguished?

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The perfect gift for the reader on your Christmas list or something to slip into your own stocking, Forever Christmas is sure to please readers who are looking for a holiday treat!

What people are saying about Forever Christmas:

“. . .a delightful romance with a few twists I didn’t see coming. A romantic tale, it’s perfect for Christmas gift-giving. It’s well written and the plot makes it a fun read. It held my interest from beginning to end. . .A great read with a warm and satisfying end.” ~ Reviewed by Ane Mulligan for Novel Reviews

“. . .a wonderful book for those who enjoy holiday sentiments, a touch of mystery and a delightful romantic story. Once you visit Jingle Bells, Arkansas through the pages of this book you will see Christmas in a different light. Kristianna’s desire for God’s will for her life reigns true and love comes in the most unexpected places. Come dashing through the snow and be warmed with the love of Forever Christmas.” ~ Reviewed by Lori Plach for Reader Views

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About the Author:
Award-winning novelist Christine Lynxwiler lives with her husband and daughters in a small town nestled in the north Arkansas Ozarks. Her other books include Promise Me Always and Arkansas.

When writing Forever Christmas, Christine used her own love for both the hometown of her childhood and her current hometown as a pattern for Kristianna’s passion for Jingle Bells. However, regardless of local rumors, the quirky townspeople are strictly figments of her imagination.

When she’s not working on her next deadline, you might find Christine kayaking on the nearby river with her family, poking around auctions and estate sales with friends, or curled up alone in a quiet corner with a great book. Please visit her at www.christinelynxwiler.com and sign the guestbook to let her know you stopped by!
Click HERE to buy Forever Christmas now!

Ask a Writer Anything: Who Impacted Me Most

Oct 1st 2007
Posted by Susan

Sarah asked: The one author who has impacted me the most?

I know I’ve answered my favorite writers, (Dee Henderson, my buddy Rachel Hauck, and many others) but as for the one that impacted me the most, it must have been Francine Rivers. When I read her Mark of the Lion series, I realized, for the first time, just what an impact Christian Fiction could have on a person’s life. I wanted to be the kind of Christian that Hadasseh was, have her courage, and commitment to the Lord. And when I read Redeeming Love and the Atonement Child, I knew that I wanted to write powerful books that could touch lives. No, I don’t write the kind of stories Francine does (yeah, right, like who does?), but I put prayer and study into them, hoping they too will impact people seeking to know God better.

(Susan May Warren spent the summer collecting “Ask and Author Anything!” questions, about life, writing and anything (within reason) her readers asked. Stop back every week this winter to read the answers to those questions!)

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